People in and out, come and go, born and die.
We think we are a good planner but sometimes we forgot that there’s still The One who decide.
My Sister, planning to get marry on April 2014. She was planning it well and almost done. But we don't know what the future brings. It's not even a month after Pria (the groom) lost his father. Then yesterday our beloved Father, Bapak E. Ruswandi passed away. Now He's Home with Him, The one who have us.
The family always remember that Bapak used to say “Hutang Bapak mah ngan hiji, nikahkeun si dede” (“My only debt is only one, to see my daughter married”) At the same day before the funeral, The family held “Akad Nikah”.. yeah exactly in front of jenazah Almarhum Bapak.
it’s another story about them. Months ago, Bapak said that he doesn’t want to held the wedding on a place that Kerlin have choosed “Bumi Samami”.
Bapak: “Just held here.. at home..”
Kerlin: “well i just payed the down payment, Pak”
as time goes by.. The Wedding or Akad Nikah was held at home. Yep, their home..
You know it was kinda experience we had. We don’t know how to feel happy or sad? Happy? Sad? Happy and sad? We don’t know..
But really, Thank You Allah for always Blessing us.. Alhamdulillah Ya Rabb..
Please guide us all the way to You.. Aamiin
Here the Father we lost Erus Ruswandi may Allah SWT always be with you, Bapak.. we’re going to meet you in a very better place..
and this is the newlywed couple Kerlinda Restu Pria Eka may Allah always blessing you both and be a Sakinah, Mawadah, Warohmah Family.. Aamiin Ya Rabb
Zara El Maulida Ruth Pricilla D P
I do wish that i can get Dad’s hug right now.
For those who still have Daddy, be lucky :)
I lost the moment like we usually watch on videoclip when every Daddy ask his daughter’s boyfie “Who are you? You come to marry my daughter? What do you have?”
Or a dramatic “If you dare, marry my daughter!”.
hahaha ya nggak gitu juga sih..
but for sure, i do really want Daddy. Maybe he would ask boyfie to play chess, sing The Beatles cause both of them fond of the same music, or even talk about the experience.
saya juga kehilangan momen saat-saat pacar ketakukan kena marah Ayah gegara nganterin pulang larut. Atau kena protes gegara ngapelin kerumah tapi gak bawa oleh-oleh (hehe.. Tapi Aba gak gitu sih..)
Just be lucky. Your Daddy won’t let you to have the one who always ruin your mascara. Your Dad will make your boyfie treat you nicely “treat your girl like you want your daughter to be treated”.
How i still need Aba, at least to ask a simple “how it will be?”
me miss you Aba,
this is another experience when I can pray freely in Abu Dhabi. In UAE women usually don’t go to Masjid to pray. Most of them are praying in their own house. So that it make me feels like i’m a truly stranger and sometimes feel so unlucky-unfortunately cause i can’t pray in this God’s House.
The adzan was very great anyway and be ready for Abaya and Kondura to wear. It’s ok, they’re providing Abaya and Kondura for you :)
I wish everyone who read this post can have chance to go to this Masjid.
Zara El Maulida